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04 April 2010 @ 11:41 pm
Please help!  
My wife has been treating me horrid for years now and I just cant take it anymore. Also she has appearently been talking bad about me in so many places online that everywhere I have looked for dvice on this had called me numberous negative things. I just want constructive advice if you have a question please ask Ill awnser if you have read one of her post making me look like satin please ask be about for my side before calling me a dick or soemething and ruining the reason Im here.

For example today I gave her a car and just asked for what I put into it. (about $400) I finally talked her into taking it because she has no car hers was stolen. I told her tomorrow we would go get a radio for it and we started looking at radios online, I insisted she get an HD radio for the better sound and she wanted one that had a screen with screen savers and dolphins jumpig around on it. I was willing to spend around $100 for a radio but the one she was looking at was $300 when I told her she couldnt have it she threw a bitchfit and started treating me like crap it escolated tot he point that I told her she wasnat sleeping with me after treating me this way she was "going to sleep on the couch" as it were. Shortly after that she started packing her stuff to move out. This happens ALL the time and I just cant deal with it anymore, Ive tried talking to her but she wont talk to me, and she openly admitts shes "spoiled".
 
Any constructive advaice is welcome but please no insults.
 
 
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(Anonymous) on April 5th, 2010 01:55 pm (UTC)
I don't know either of you and from what it sounds like there is more to this than what I know. Best advice I can give. GET THE FUCK OUT AND GET A DIVORCE.

Not an easy descision. I know I am going through one right now
Seidhrseidhr on April 5th, 2010 07:41 pm (UTC)
I don't know either of you either (as far as I know).

But I'm really not clear on what it is you want advice about. It sounds like you're ready to get a divorce, but that you're not sure that's what you should do? What you're describing is a situation that I personally could not deal with (obviously I don't have all the information, but based on what you've written), and I would seek a divorce. That being said, I'm assuming something you haven't written about has kept you in the marriage for however many years it's been in existence.

So what I think is that you need to decide if what has kept you there is still enough for you. If it's not, you should divorce. If it is, then you should stay and perhaps seek some sort of marital therapy to work through the problems you two have.
Chancechansonduloup on April 8th, 2010 01:52 am (UTC)
People leave the same advice everywhere you ask:

http://community.livejournal.com/ask_me_anything/26761680.html
http://community.livejournal.com/young_marriages/131724.html

Sometimes, you just have to move on, especially considering these posts by your wife/fiancée (I'm unsure if you're married already or not):

http://community.livejournal.com/weddingplans/18303757.html?thread=270042125#t270042125
http://community.livejournal.com/weddingplans/18324991.html
ghostlynightsghostlynights on August 31st, 2010 01:25 pm (UTC)
Sounds like she needs to grow up! Maybe counseling? If she won't go, you go.
(Anonymous) on September 2nd, 2010 03:57 pm (UTC)
Wow you two *really* have issues. I don't believe she is pregs now. Actually I do believe it, because your dumb ass is dumb enough to fuck her without a condom on. What if the baby isn't even yours? Hhahahah have fun raising it while Kris sits around all day. You two can't even take care of s freaking CAT, now you're in charge of a human life? I can't wait until next April when the baby is born (that's if she doesn't miscarry first, which I bet she will merely based on her living conditions and weight) Trust that me and others will be calling child protective services on you, so you better get your act together before then. Have fun with your miserable life!